by not remember do you mean at all? or ADI, or getting married?
[Look he'll support them for everything else but that option in particular is one he has a vested interest in, because being forgotten entirely is really awful and not something one should have to endure alone-]
He remembers me from the Feywild and our engagement there, and then even further from that, he knows of the life that we supposedly lived past when I arrived to ADI.
Thank you, my heart. I imagine there may be some obstacles ahead of us still, but I will not forget the gift that I have been given of even seeing him again. We will be just fine.
I only need you and the other boys to meet him and then my heart will be settled!
But my darling, just because I am your mother does not mean you must accept Hob without knowing him as a parent of your own. I know you already know this, you hardly need my nagging reminder, but there is no pressure on my end. Not ever.
I said it halfway as a joke, but also kind of a ??? thought. Like it's complicated. I don't remember my mom, and no one else had one that they know of. So you being Mom isn't as dramatic I think. But besides Hunter we all have dads. Had. Even if it's not replacing them, it might still be a hard title to share.
Do not fret over it at all, little cub. If one day you feel the title fits, then we can discuss it then. But there is no expectation from either me that you see him as a father or a step-father at all.
Though I do hope, one day, you may think of him as family. :)
Family's easy. It doesn't take long to consider someone family.
Case in point I guess.
[2 month speedrun for him to call them family at the lake. He's not even the fastest now. Rue really is just so loving and welcoming it's hard to resist the pull.]
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He does not remember, but I will hardly complain if that means he is here with us.
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by not remember do you mean at all? or ADI, or getting married?
[Look he'll support them for everything else but that option in particular is one he has a vested interest in, because being forgotten entirely is really awful and not something one should have to endure alone-]
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But he does not remember that place.
[or the wedding]
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I'm glad he's here though, and that he knows and loves you
maybe we can have a huge wedding here instead!
just marry him a dozen times
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That WOULD be very fae of us.
Thank you, my heart. I imagine there may be some obstacles ahead of us still, but I will not forget the gift that I have been given of even seeing him again. We will be just fine.
I only need you and the other boys to meet him and then my heart will be settled!
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I know. but just say the word if you ever want to talk about this stuff
and tell me when you're done monopolizing him, you know I'll be there in a heartbeat :)
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He is simply getting used to this realm. There's much I'm teaching him, he does not even know about texting!
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maybe don't let him text with Leo for a while then lol
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But my darling, just because I am your mother does not mean you must accept Hob without knowing him as a parent of your own. I know you already know this, you hardly need my nagging reminder, but there is no pressure on my end. Not ever.
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I said it halfway as a joke, but also kind of a ??? thought. Like it's complicated. I don't remember my mom, and no one else had one that they know of. So you being Mom isn't as dramatic I think. But besides Hunter we all have dads. Had. Even if it's not replacing them, it might still be a hard title to share.
So we'll see, I guess! That's where I'm at.
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Though I do hope, one day, you may think of him as family. :)
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Case in point I guess.
[2 month speedrun for him to call them family at the lake. He's not even the fastest now. Rue really is just so loving and welcoming it's hard to resist the pull.]
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I hope you will like him.
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I hope he likes me!
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:) :) :)
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is it disrespectful to not like someone, or is it just terrible taste
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I'll be on my best behaviour then and give him the best chance of not getting dumped
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I'll make sure you both have time together soon.
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Until then, have fun :) love you
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[time to go gush about how wonderful casey is to hob]