But my darling, just because I am your mother does not mean you must accept Hob without knowing him as a parent of your own. I know you already know this, you hardly need my nagging reminder, but there is no pressure on my end. Not ever.
I said it halfway as a joke, but also kind of a ??? thought. Like it's complicated. I don't remember my mom, and no one else had one that they know of. So you being Mom isn't as dramatic I think. But besides Hunter we all have dads. Had. Even if it's not replacing them, it might still be a hard title to share.
Do not fret over it at all, little cub. If one day you feel the title fits, then we can discuss it then. But there is no expectation from either me that you see him as a father or a step-father at all.
Though I do hope, one day, you may think of him as family. :)
Family's easy. It doesn't take long to consider someone family.
Case in point I guess.
[2 month speedrun for him to call them family at the lake. He's not even the fastest now. Rue really is just so loving and welcoming it's hard to resist the pull.]
no subject
no subject
But my darling, just because I am your mother does not mean you must accept Hob without knowing him as a parent of your own. I know you already know this, you hardly need my nagging reminder, but there is no pressure on my end. Not ever.
no subject
I said it halfway as a joke, but also kind of a ??? thought. Like it's complicated. I don't remember my mom, and no one else had one that they know of. So you being Mom isn't as dramatic I think. But besides Hunter we all have dads. Had. Even if it's not replacing them, it might still be a hard title to share.
So we'll see, I guess! That's where I'm at.
no subject
Though I do hope, one day, you may think of him as family. :)
no subject
Case in point I guess.
[2 month speedrun for him to call them family at the lake. He's not even the fastest now. Rue really is just so loving and welcoming it's hard to resist the pull.]
no subject
I hope you will like him.
no subject
I hope he likes me!
no subject
no subject
no subject
:) :) :)
no subject
is it disrespectful to not like someone, or is it just terrible taste
no subject
no subject
I'll be on my best behaviour then and give him the best chance of not getting dumped
no subject
I'll make sure you both have time together soon.
no subject
Until then, have fun :) love you
no subject
[time to go gush about how wonderful casey is to hob]